What To Do Before "I do": 8 Months Out

3 min read September 13, 2026 Team Fun365
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Still basking in that newly engaged glow? Perfect! This month of wedding planning is all about you and your new fiancé!

With eight months until the big day, it’s time to start spreading the word. We’ll guide you through sending your save the dates and planning an engagement photo shoot.

You also get to make some big (but exciting) decisions this month in choosing your wedding officiant and wedding bands.

We’ve curated this month-by-month wedding planning guide to ensure a smooth process from the day of your proposal to the day you say, “I do!” Check out all of our tips, tricks and unexpected ideas to keep you inspired and organized through 12 months of wedding planning.

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Finding The Perfect Wedding Officiant

Your wedding ceremony officiant plays a meaningful role in your big day. We have tips to help you find an officiant who fits perfectly with the style of your wedding. 

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Clear Your Calendars and Save the Date!

Let your friends and family know about your upcoming wedding day with a save the date announcement. Follow our guidelines for save the date etiquette and get inspired to add a personal touch with our unique save the date ideas!

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Put a Ring on It: Choosing Your Wedding Rings

The time has come to pick the perfect addition to your engagement ring-- your wedding band! Plus, your soon-to-be husband needs to choose his ring as well. Check out our list of things to consider when making this big purchase and our ideas for wedding ring alternatives. 

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Beyond Selfies: The Engagement Photo Shoot

Capture that "just engaged" happiness and love with an engagement photo shoot. Use our list of creative ideas and locations to snap the engagement photos of your dreams.

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DIY Ceremony Pergola and Garland

Be thinking of big installations you'd like to add for a statement piece for your big day, because these will likely take some time to plan and create! Dress up any ceremony venue with this DIY pergola and jaw-dropping floral garland. Create a cozy, intimate space for you and your future hubby's vows. 

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Gold Flake DIY Lanterns + Wine Holders

Narrow down your wedding theme or color scheme to a "T"! For an industrial, metallic aesthetic, incorporate these DIY lanterns and wine holders into your wedding tablescape. 

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Rustic Bride and Groom Chair Wreaths

Make every little detail count! Adorn the bride and groom's chairs with DIY wreaths and rustic signs. These chair backers give the head table extra pizazz and make for an adorable photo op.

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Mint and Peach Wedding Table Idea

Are you planning on a spring or summer wedding? Keep your wedding bright and fresh with this mint and peach wedding tablescape. The color combination is modern, yet classically romantic with its use of fabulous florals and of course lovely, fresh peaches.

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